In the context of the cycle of violence, what common behavior does an abuser display after expressing remorse?

After an abuser expresses remorse, the typical behavior observed is the continuation of the cycle of violence. This cycle often consists of a tension-building phase, an acute explosion of violence, and then a honeymoon phase where the abuser may show remorse and affection. It can create a false sense of security, leading the victim to believe that the abuser has changed or that it won’t happen again.

The cycle is characterized by a repetitive pattern where, despite initial expressions of remorse, the underlying issues remain unresolved. Instead of making genuine changes, many abusers revert to their old behaviors, escalating the cycle of violence. This leads to further incidents of abuse, reinforcing the cycle and making it difficult for the victim to leave.

In contrast, seeking therapy, withdrawing completely, or leaving the relationship indicate a break from the cycle. These actions signify a recognition of the need for change or an end to the abusive relationship, which is not typical of an abuser's behavior after remorse is shown.